Happiness is made out of different things that make up our daily life but no happiness can be compared to the one delivered by loved ones. Happiness derived from love is to be ranked as one of the most specials happiness because it brings security and confidence. Not only romantic relationships play a part in making you happy. Friends and Family also take huge part in showing you who you really stand for and love you for what you are not for what you are and what you have. Also maintaining a good social communication makes you fit in and belong, not left to a side and ignore.
As we grow we meet hundreds of people in our life but only certain are kept to be special. Either best friend or loved ones people that inject memories of happiness and good times. Relationships make us happy and bring a meaning for life sometimes but different confidence is delivered from either friends, family members or loved ones. At our childhood our most loved relationships is our parents because they bring confidence and trust as we grow. Parents guide us through our exploration of the world. Even as child’s we tend to love one parent more than the other in my case I preferred my mom she brought security and a feeling of help whenever I was in trouble.
Later in life as we enter the teenage lifestyle we still are being cared and watch by our parents, but as you socialize with people around where you live or school. We start to focusing on blending in with the group or meeting someone that can be a best friend or expressing more than friendship. That’s when love starts to show itself on other rather than your parents and family. You feel the sensation of self security and trust with that person. We start to look up to what I learned in the book Happier by Tal Ben-Shahar the persons self core which is to look or what others look in our inner self. Our personality brings up the reasons we fall in love unconditionally or conditionally.
At the moment we live our adulthood relationships have taught us love and pain which leave experiences. Happiness will not only be build on whether you become successful or not as human beings we need to be care of and fit in to a group of people. Other than romantic relationships and family we need to socialize with people that share the same thoughts and become great friends of us. Relationships like friend bring guide and fun experiences these are people that become holders of our secrets and people you feel comfortable to talk with. Socializing is a relationship that makes part of our life and builds up our personality and brings happiness of belonging somewhere.
Relationships bring up most of our happiness in our lives because they are the meaning of life in most cases and are the fuel that drives us to success in life. Relationships fill our day with tasks and schedules to show care for them. Make us look into what we really like of that person seeing their core self and not their professions and materialism. Most important of all happiness is delivered thanks to the companionship and care that is shown mutually to each other and those important memories that are made of those moments.
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